Showing posts with label family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label family. Show all posts

Thursday, November 28, 2024

A Sketchy Family History

 


          Pop never showed much of a penchant for drawing, but he had one trick that always amused us. Starting with a rather hourglass figure, he would add horns, eyes, and nostrils to make a cow’s head. In later years he returned to sketching to amuse his grandbabies, and here is a page that includes some early scratchings by the girls as he would let them try drawing themselves.


          Now Mom had much more of a history of drawing and would amaze us by producing realistic pictures. I remember a head of Kenny she drew soon after he was born. We also have an old spiral notebook with some drawings, including some very obviously Fifties-type ladies. I wish I had made scans of them while my copier was still working. The only picture I have from her in the computer archives is this sketch she did of John’s boxer, Millie.



          I don’t know how much influence Nanny had on Mom while she was growing up, but she did paint quite a bit in later years. We had some of her works hanging in Loop Drive for years: a moose walking through a river, a desert road surrounded by cacti stretching back towards blue mountains, a plane on pontoons landing on a lake. I joke that, just like Hitler, she did not use human figures very much. She was pretty good with flowers though, and they were most of her paintings. After Nanny passed, we found one enigmatic canvas by her of a disembodied hand floating in space, clutching a rose. It seems oddly occult.

          Now Mike never drew a whole lot, but when he did it had a strange, savage power. I remember a very early drawing by him of Omi, shown from the side, of her with a cigarette clamped between open teeth. He made rather devastating caricatures of us all, and this sketch by him of Mom, while rather stark, shows a strange talent for capturing a facet of reality.



          When it comes to me, I never did buckle down to drawing until middle school. I was pushed on by wanting to express something my reading, especially of Tolkien, and a couple of basic art classes. I can’t say I ever mastered proportion or a degree of realism (I was mainly dabbling and doodling), but I made up for that with frittering detail that made it look like I was really doing something. Here is my portrait of Mom, made with the help of a projector, and a self-portrait made using a mirror.






Now John, I say, is a real artist, drawing constantly since he was in grade school. His chosen mode of expression was the comic strip, which takes both drawing and writing. We have several epics by him scanned into the Archives. He also did most applying himself to his art, studying several books by famous animators and making constant experiments. Here is his portrait of Mom, and his impression of us boys as kids.




Kenny, I know, does some drawing, and I have a couple of examples of his work in the Archives, but not scanned. I think his style is somehow reminiscent of Mom’s. Most of his expression in Art is in the acting arts, of course.

Now coming to the next generation, we have John’s girl Morgandy, who just seems to be going from strength to strength. Perhaps it is not surprising, given John’s example, and his encouragement and support, something we never quite had from our parents. We had the occasional praise; they just never dreamed it would come to anything. Morgandy is learning very well how to use computer methods, a resource that we, as kids, never could never have imagined having. I think that in some ways she is the culmination of a generational dream. I can just imagine how pleased Mom would be. Here is one of her latest works.


Sunday, November 26, 2023

Thanksgiving 2023

 

11/23/23: Thanksgiving Day. Up at 4:30 AM. Cartoons at 6 AM; they had Holiday for Drumsticks and Harmonica Humdingers, so that’s at least two ‘holiday’ cartoons. Was afraid I’d broken off my insulin needle in my flesh, but it was only bent. 

Went in at 10 AM. Peeled and boiled for mashed potatoes; improvised a gravy with fried onions and mushrooms; buttered and heated up rolls [I'd made pea salad, deviled eggs, and pumpkin pie the day before]. Went in at 12:15 PM and took shower and got dressed. Ready to leave at 1 PM, but we didn’t until about 1:45 PM. Everybody else rode in Ryan’s truck with the food; I rode with Andy in the wrecker. Nice bleak November weather; it had dried up since morning. We had to go back and get Susan’s phone. We arrived at 2 PM (exactly at the time we were scheduled to eat). After a bit of kerfuffle, John said the prayer and the feast began.

There was ham and smoked turkey, dressing, green bean salad, mashed potatoes, gravy, cranberry sauce, pea salad, deviled eggs, orange divinity, and afterward peach, cherry, pumpkin pie and little pecan pies and chocolate cake. Tea and soda. Many of us sat at the kitchen table and ‘the kids’ (from Ryan on down) in the living room. Since I was kind of wedged into a corner, Morgandy pretty much waited on me.

After we ate there were games. The boys won 4 to 1 in Catch Phrase, Ryan and Morgandy abstaining. Then when it came to Cards Against Humanity (scandalous!) Amy’s mother also left; for a miracle, I actually won that game.

We went outside and started a fire pit and schmoozed some more (talk, of course, having gone on all evening). We left about 9 PM (I think); on the way home, we were delayed by witnessing an accident. Andy and Ryan (as wreckers) were bound to stop and report the car going off-road and into a fence, but the guys did not need a tow and drove off on their own. Home, winding down, then to bed.

[Amy's mom and step-dad should be included in that picture, but they'd already left before I thought to take it.]


Sunday, October 29, 2023

Cultural Fossil?

 

When I was young, there was a sort of Babel family joke between Pop and his siblings (and older cousins, nephews, and nieces). It was not much of a joke. In fact, it was just a sort of a silly name; simply to say the name was to assume that the joke was made. Was it supposed to be pretentious? Was it just odd? What I do know was that all someone had to do was screw their face up and pronounce ‘BUX-ta-HOO-da’ in a certain sonorous tone and they would evoke a gale of giggles.

          It was only many years later that I learned that Dieterich Buxtahude (1637 -1707) “was a Danish organist and composer of the Baroque period, whose works are typical of the North German organ school. As a composer who worked in various vocal and instrumental idioms, Buxtehude's style greatly influenced other composers, such as Johann Sebastian Bach and George Frideric Handel. Buxtehude is considered one of the most important composers of the 17th century.” - Wikipedia.

Our ancestor, Amandus Babel, a Silesian-German immigrant (regarded as Prussian because of the regime in charge at the time) who first came to Texas in 1852, was a professor of music and well-versed in most of the classical composers. I like to think that this little jest was a sort of petrified joke passed down through the family long after its meaning and origin had faded from memory, perhaps even preserving the tones and grimaces of old Amandus or the affectionate mockery of his children.            


Saturday, December 31, 2022

Should Auld Acquaintance Be Forgot

 

Some time ago I made a list of the pets we had at Loop Drive over the years. Here it is.

1.Spotty (D-Terrier)
2.Fang (D-Poodle)
3.Fancy (D-Poodle)
4. Suzette (D-Poodle)
5. Lance Link (D)
6. Sheba (D-Doberman)
7. Polly (D)
8. Henri (Ornery H.) (D-Poodle)
9. Puss-Puss (C)
10. Rosemary (C)
11.Belladonna (C)
12. Merry (C?)
13. Pippin (C?)
14. Hickory (D-Chihuahua)
15. Bitsy (D-Chihuahua)
16. Polo (D-Chihuahua)
17. Petey (D-Chihuahua)
18. Ginger (D-Chihuahua)
19. Snap (D-Chihuahua)
20. Rocky (D-Rottweiler)
21. Baby (D-Chow)
22. Millie Chee (D-Boxer)
23. Minnie Chee (D-Pug)
24. Nippy (D)
25. Flea (D)
26.Kitty Kohn (C)
27. Smokey (C)
28. Fleafur (C)
29. Hoofer-poot (C)
30. Adolph Hamster
31. Blinky the Owl
32. Grimace the Duck

33. Blueboy the Parrot

34. Sylvester (C)

35. Fala (D)

Armadillos, 2 deer, a possum, a raccoon, a few squirrels, numerous snakes, fish, crawdads, gerbils, hamsters, a grackle, and a baby mockingbird.

That early run of poodles represented the by-products of Pat's Poodles, a little side-hustle that Nanny had Mom run for her. Spotty lasted an amazingly long time, from before I was in first grade until I was into college. Sheba was the one dog that was ever mine; she went to "live on Uncle David's farm". Rosemary was a cat I got from Mrs. Harris, my 4th Grade teacher; Belladonna was her daughter. Nippy and Flea were Millie's half-breed offspring. That run of Chihuahuas turned out to be the perfect dogs for Mom when she was grounded by her arthritis, being the right size to snuggle up next to her in her recliner. Pop's backyard garden had the dubious honor of being our pet graveyard (around the far edges); it was also the site where the enormous Rocky, when he passed, had first a burial mound and then a pyre, going to Doggie Heaven in a particularly Viking way. Sometimes I wonder if the present occupants of Loop Drive are ever haunted by our past animals.